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About the Author
Fallon Rowe, who now resides in St. George, Utah, close to Zion National Park, grew up in Idaho, then earned her geology degree at Utah State University. She thrives with multiple identities: dirtbag climber, high school science teacher, writer, geoscience researcher, photographer, climbing coach, and guide. Since 2017, she’s been a sponsored rock climber with support from multiple brands, allowing her to live out her adventure dreams. Rock climbing has been the central focus of her life since 2003, but she has persisting passion for nature, science, literature, and Stoic philosophy.
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At nineteen, Fallon Rowe was swept into a whirlwind romance with a charismatic new climbing partner, leaving behind her geology studies in northern Utah for an expedition that would change her life forever. Together, they set out for Patagonia to climb the legendary Fitz Roy—a peak far beyond her experience level. But what began as an adventure quickly spiraled into chaos, marked by illness, violence, run-ins with Argentinian police, and a toxic relationship that tested her endurance in ways she never imagined.
Returning to Utah, Fallon found herself trapped—isolated, broke, and physically and emotionally drained. As her partner’s untreated bipolar disorder drove their world into further turmoil, she fought to reclaim her identity and freedom. "Pay No Mind" is an unflinching account of survival, addiction, and the battle to escape both a dangerous relationship and the limits imposed by fear. In climbing, as in life, the hardest route is often the one that leads to freedom.
Fallon Rowe is an accomplished writer, climber, and advocate for survivors of abuse. Her writing captures the complexities of trauma, healing, and the exhilarating freedom found in the natural world. With her unique voice and authentic perspective, Rowe has received accolades for her ability to inspire and connect with readers on a deeply personal level.
Readers drawn to stories of resilience, adventure, and survival will find Pay No Mind both riveting and transformative. Rowe’s journey is an inspiration to anyone who has faced adversity and fought to reclaim their life. With its blend of breathtaking adventure and emotional depth, this book is perfect for fans of memoirs that challenge, uplift, and ultimately empower.
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Fallon Rowe offers a vivid, if startling view into a chapter of life rarely shared with such detail and intensity. Pay No Mind is a brutally honest look at how passion and obsession can decay into the horror of pathological abuse. Its pages not only detail the trauma one woman has endured, they reveal the tragic patterns of what it’s like for anyone to fall prey to another’s sickness and manipulation.
This courageous memoir is a powerful reminder that we are not alone, and that we have the power to move on – no matter how stuck we may feel. It will encourage readers to take a shrewd look at their own relationships and inspire them to do anything possible to avoid what Rowe has suffered.
~Chris Weidner
